Flavored lubricants are great for enhancing an already spicy situation. They’re great for reducing friction, making things slippery and wet, and making things taste good. However, many flavored lubricants in the market are made with glycerin which for some, can cause irritation to the lady bits. So today, we are going to talk about a glycerin-free alternative that everyone can enjoy.
Water based and water-soluble
Sugar & sugar derivative free
100% Vegan friendly
Lightly flavored to enhance taste
Glycerin free and paraben free
Hypoallergenic and non-toxic
Non-staining and lightly scented
Uniquely blended to enhance your body’s own natural lubrication
Sliquid Natural Swirls are water-based flavored lubricants made by Sliquid. They are a natural alternative to flavored lubricants made with glycerin. Great for those who are sensitive to ingredient or want to avoid it altogether. No matter which size you pick up, available in 2oz, 4oz, and 8oz bottles, all come with a push cap top, which makes application easier and less messy. And because they are available in 2oz bottles, you can take them with you even when your jet setting locally, across the country, or across the world, you can pack this into your carry-on, purse, or your back pocket.
The consistency of the Sliquid Natural Swirl lubricants are slightly viscous and doesn’t immediately run as soon as it leaves the bottle. Which is great for applying to a specific spot without having to worry about it getting everywhere but does spread nicely in case you want to get down and dirty! The Sliquid Natural Swirl lubricants doubles as a 2-in-1 as it can also be used for all types of sex, are compatible with all types of condoms, and can be used with all types of sex toys materials. So if you’re someone who doesn’t care for traveling with or using multiple lubricants, this can save you space and maybe some money as well. I personally think it’s important to have a good lube for partnered sex that everyone can enjoy.
Some ways you can use flavored lubricant are as follows: Blindfold your partner, apply some lube to their erogenous zones and lick it of slowly. This can build arousal and makes foreplay a little more interesting. You can apply some to your tongue and write letters that spell out a work somewhere on your partner and have them guess what it says. Another idea is applying a few drops to your genitals and having your partner guess the flavor while going down on you. So hot!
I got to try 4 flavors. Here’s my taste test results:
Blue Raspberry: A bright spritzy berry flavor with the perfect amount of sweetness. How do they encapsulate the flavor of a blue raspberry? The world may never know.
Tangerine Peach: This one has a citrusy punch combined with the mellowness of the peach flavor. Yum!
Green Apple Swirl: My personal favorite! Tastes exactly like a granny smith apple.
Strawberry Pomegranate: Bright berry flavor mixed with the slight tartness from the pomegranate.
If you are in the market for a mildly sweet glycerin free alternative to flavored lubricant that is 100% vagina-friendly that’s guaranteed to make sexual endeavor’s even more delicious, then I encourage you to give Sliquid Natural Swirl Lubricants a try.
Some of the best ways to enhance intimacy and sexual pleasure is through the senses. Today, we are going to focus on the sense of taste with Wet Desserts Flavored Lubricants. So let’s dive in.
Decadent flavor and scent
Sugar-free and stain-free
Available in 3oz bottles
Available in flavors Bananas Foster, Crème Brulee, Salted Caramel, Whipped Cream, and Frosted Cupcake
Water (Aqua), Glycerin, Pentylene Glycol, Carboxymethylcellulose, Flavor (Aroma), Sucralose, and Potassium Sorbate.
Let’s talk about consistency. I would describe the consistency of Wet Dessert Flavored Lubricants as thin and runny. It spreads easily doesn’t get sticky when it dries, though I doubt that will be the case once you taste it. Because of the push cap top on the bottles of this lubricant, applying as little or as much lube as you want to an area is a breeze and can be done without causing a mess. The lubricants are available in 3oz bottles making them great for travel, putting them in your pocket, or packing them in your purse. I got to try two flavors and here’s what I think of them:
Crème Brulee: When I think of Crème Brulee, I think about this custardy concoction with caramelized sugar laying over the top waiting for me to break that thin crispy glass with the back of my spoon. I get a light sweet mellow taste enhance by the sweetness of caramelized sugar. Delicious!
Bananas Foster: I never thought it would possible to encapsulate the flavor of caramelized bananas. It’s the taste of bananas made even sweeter with the added caramelization from the sugar spooned over vanilla ice cream with an added slightly buttery taste. My personal favorite of the two.
Tiffy’s Tip: Glycerin is a commonly used ingredient found in many lubricants. It is essentially a sugar and is known to cause irritation and yeast infections to those who are prone to them. Not everyone has this sensitivity for the most part, but some do. If you or your partner is sensitive to this ingredient or is prone to yeast infections, I would advise and suggest that you looking into a glycerin-free alternative.
I also wanted to add that this flavored lube does not have an aftertaste whatsoever. And a little goes a long way, so always start out with a little. Now that I’ve talked about the taste, let’s talk about the many ways you can use them. I personally like use the Wet Desserts Flavored Lubricant to spice things up while preforming oral sex. It can also be used during other types of foreplay such like drizzling some over your partner’s body and licking it off, trailing your tongue along their hotspots (a.k.a erogenous zones). A nice technique for building up arousal. You can also give the lube to your partner and allow them to place a drizzle or two anywhere on their body for you to lick off, even adding it as the result of a friendly wager. With consent of course.
You can purchase the Wet Desserts Flavored Lubricants here.
If you like what you’ve read here, check out more of Tiffy Kinks writing at her sex blog Aquakink.com.
The Mojis ILY Mini Silicone Plug is perfect for those looking to get into the Wonderful World of Anal Play or are looking for something with a novelty look but still safe to use. So let’s talk about it.
Made of silicone and ABS plastic
Tapered for comfort
Expressive emoji decor
Suitable for use with all lubricants
4 inches in length
1.7 inches in width
When I first saw the Mojis ILY Mini Silicone Plug, I immediately took notice of how cute it looks. I got mine in pink. I like that the pink is soft and playful looking. The design is very beginner-friendly, with its pointy yet rounded tapered tip that widens slightly toward the bottom, tapering back down into a short neck, then into a flared base. If I had to find something comparable in size, I would compare it to the size of a pinky.
If you are new to the wonderful world of anal play, you might not know that for the most part, silicone sex toys are not to be paired with silicone lubricants as it can destroy silicone toys. With the Mojis Mini Silicone Plugs however, this is not the case, as it is compatible with all lubricants. So no need to worry about using the wrong lube with this plug.
My favorite feature about the Mojis ILY Mini Silicone Plug is the tapered tip which makes insertion a breeze and the flared base. It fits perfectly between the cheeks and is comfortable to wear for extended periods of time. I personally like walking around with it in and doing some booty exercises, like twerking 😉
Please note: Do not boil the Mojis Mini Silicone Plugs in an attempt to sanitize, as it can ruin the emoji in the base, which is made of ABS plastic.
The Mojis Mini Silicone Plugs are cute, functional, and affordable butt plugs that are great starter plugs for beginners or someone who is already seasoned to anal play, but looking to spice things up with their flirty and waggish designs. It can be used with any and all types of lubricants, making it an ideal option for your booty.
The Mojis ILY Mini Silicone Plug is available in 3 designs (ILY, WTF, and OMG) and available in two colors (Black and Pink)
Sliquid Sassy is the thicker version of Sliquid H2O. It maintains its viscosity while remaining easily spreadable and oh so slippery. I find that sometimes when I use lube, it can become very sticky when it dries, and I immediately want to take a shower after having my playtime because it feels so sticky and gross. Sliquid Sassy is formulated to emulate the body’s natural lubrication, making if feel like it’s one with your body. Leaving me with more time to cuddle with my partner.
While Sliquid Sassy is an all-purpose lubricant that can used for all kinds of sex, I personally like to use it with anal toys. It can provide some a barrier between you and the toy, making insertion and use more pleasant. This lube also has no scent or taste. So if you’re someone who sensitive to smells, this one is for you. And because it’s a completely water-based formula, it can be used with all sex toy materials.
Another great feature about Sliquid Sassy is that it is glycerin free. Glycerin is a commonly used ingredient in lubricants which is mostly used to help aid in slipperiness, taste, and viscosity. However, it can cause irritation and yeast infections for some vagina owners. If you have a sensitivity to glycerin or are prone to yeast infections, Siquid Sassy has got you covered.
Please Note: When using Sliquid Sassy, always remember that a little goes a long way and can be reactivated with water.
Sliquid Sassy is a great all-purpose lubricant with a thicker consistency that can provide some added cushioning, especially during anal sex and sex toys. It’s a great option for someone looking for a natural option that works with your body’s natural lubrication rather than against it. If you are someone who has been sensitive to other formulas in the past, I highly recommend this one.
To Use: Apply a small amount of Jelle where lubrication is desired. Cleans away easily with water.
The first thing I noticed about the Wicked Jelle Water Based Anal Lubricant was it’s packaging. You don’t see many lubricants packaged in a squeeze tube. I assumed because its lubricant and it’s in a squeeze tube, that I would probably have to careful when I was dispensing the product but to my surprise there was no drip!
Wicked Jelle is high in viscosity. Probably the thickest gel lubricant I have ever used. I found when I applied it to my body or to a toy, it stayed in one place and didn’t move. With thinner lubricants, they can sometimes drip all over the place and make a mess. When using Wicked Jelle however, you need to apply and spread it onto your desired area.
Wicked Jelle is very slick and slippery and created a barrier between me and any sex toy I was using. It makes insertion more pleasant and made thrusting with my sex toys all the more enjoyable. Thought it is not meant to be used a flavored lubricant, it does have a slightly sweet taste.
I also found that I didn’t need allot of it when using it. The reason for that is because it’s so thick that takes a longer time to dry than lubes that aren’t as thick and this formula is concentrated, so a little really does go a long way. When it dries, it doesn’t leave a dry feeling on the skin, but it doesn’t dry down like a regular water-based lubricant. I found that out by testing it two ways: 1. Using it with a ton of sex toys and 2. Applying some product on the back of my hand and waiting for it to dry. I would suggest using a water to re-activate the product first before applying more product.
Because Wicked Jelle is water-based, it can be used with all sex toy materials and is ideal for anal sex. Since it is also glycerin-free and pH Balanced, it can be used vaginally and I personally would suggest it for vaginal penetration. If you don’t get in the shower right after doing the do, I would suggest cleaning up with a damp washcloth.
Whether you’re a beginner to anal play or anal expert, Wicked Jelle Water Based Anal Lubricant is a great option for those looking for a thicker alternative to thinner water-based products. It works great for all types of sex and a little goes a long way.
To purchase Wicked Jelle Water Based Anal Lubricant, click here.
When imaging all the things that might turn your partner on, the mind usually wanders to the stereotypically “sexy” things some people enjoy. But when it comes to turn ons, there are actually quite a few quirky, endearing, everyday moments that can do the trick, too — and fill your partner with butterflies.
Because really, isn’t it the little things that stand out when you think about what makes your partner attractive to you? Think along the lines of catching your partner reading their favorite book, spotting them across the room at a party as they tell a great story, or simply glancing in their direction right as they adjust their glasses. These small moments and gestures are what make your partner so unique. And it all adds up to what makes them attractive, in your eyes.
And the thing to remember is that they’re noticing the same things about you. As relationship and LGBT expert Kryss Shane, MS, MSW, LSW, LMSW tells Bustle, what we “may fail to realize is that the quirks and awkward moments may be what keeps the relationship growing. These intimate details may even be a turn-on for your partner!”
Even seemingly “gross” moments, like giving your partner a hug when you’re sweaty, or standing next to each other as you brush your teeth, can be important. These little moments bring you closer together, and they can become exactly the thing that turns you both on. Here are a few surprising and quirky things that many people find attractive, according to the experts.
1 – Doing Something You’re Good At
If you’re and your partner are in the mood to turn each other on, simply “do what you do best,” Raffi Bilek, LCSW-C, director of the Baltimore Therapy Center tells Bustle. Whether it’s playing the guitar, cooking your favorite meal, telling a great story, or simply making a cup of coffee, “when people do what they love and are good at, they radiate positive energy, confidence, and good vibes,” Bilek says. “This is a real turn-on to a partner who knows you and cares about you.”
2 – Squinting Or Frowning
Ever notice that it’s kinda endearing when your partner furrows their brow or squints to see something? Little facial expressions like these can be surprisingly sexy. And the good news is, we all do them without even trying.
“Whether looking far away, staring against the sun, or when looking for one’s glasses first thing in the morning — squinting can be funny and sexy,” Caleb Backe, a health and wellness expert at Maple Holistics, tells Bustle. With zero effort at all, you can win make your partner’s heart leap — simply by being yourself.
3 – Playing An Instrument
As mentioned above, doing something you’re good at can be a major turn-on, as it shows off your confidence with a certain skill. But this one in particular takes things to the next level, because it involves the intricate use of your hands.
“Hands are incredibly sensual,” Backe says. “When watching someone show off a skill … like musicality — and particularly when they are using their hands and fingertips — it can be a great turn on.”
4 – Grooming & Getting Ready To Go Out
Whether your partner is watching you shave, or brush your hair, there’s no denying how sexy it can be to watch someone get ready for the day. And same goes for the the unconventional things mentioned above, such as brushing your teeth.
As Backe says, “Some things having to do with hygiene are not sexy, and some are. Those two brush-related activities are relatively innocuous, yet intimate … And since partners also do those together sometimes, in the morning or before bed, it can be something which gets your juices flowing.”
5 – Chewing On A Pen
Twirling a pen or lightly chewing on a pencil can be enticing for some, too. “Even when not meant as a seductive technique, there is something there that is endearing,” Backe says. “Maybe it the combination of the act and the fact that the person doing it is lost in thought. Either way, combined with a far-off gaze, it can be a sexy pose.”
6 – Playing With Kids
If you’ve ever fallen more in love with your partner after watching them play with their nieces and nephews, then you know exactly what I’m talking about. There’s just something so sweet about holding a baby, or showing off your ability to play with kids, Backe says. It’s wholesome, but can also get you and your partner thinking about having kids yourselves someday, if it’s something you both want.
7 – Being Honest & Truthful
There’s something incredibly sexy about having a true heart-to-heart with your partner. “People are turned on by confidence, and someone who speaks in an unabashedly open, honest, and articulate way,” can really turn their partner on, Backe says. Even if it’s just about the goings on of your day, or something equally mundane, being honest and forthright with your partner can certainly bring you two closer together.
8 – Singing In The Shower
If you have a great voice, it can be a major turn on for your partner to hear you belt it out in the shower. But what’s even more endearing? If you totally can’t sing, but go ahead and do it anyway.
Again, this is about your comfort and confidence — which are two very sexy traits. As Shane says, “Singing in the shower even when your partner is home may feel daunting (especially if you can’t carry a tune in a bucket) but your off-key warbling might make your [partner] smile.”
9 – Socializing Together
It can be a turn-on for your partner to watch you in your element, doin’ your thing, and making people laugh. As relationship expert and lifestyle strategist Alexis Germany tells Bustle, “An ex told me it turned him on to watch me socialize from across a crowded room when we were at an event together. [He] said he liked the way other people looked at me and it turned him on to know he was the one I was going home with.” Endearing, right?
10 – Being All Sweaty
While you might think it’s gross to hang out with your partner when you’re sweaty, there’s a good chance they actually really like it. “When you forget to shower [after a workout] and your armpit sweat and endorphins are on high, if your partner is innately attracted to your pheromones, this will be a huge chemical turn on,” dating and empowerment coach Laurel House tells Bustle. So don’t run straight to the shower — give them a sweaty hug first.
11 – Hanging Out & Relaxing
You might think sexiness is all trying hard. But lots of partners find their significant others to be incredibly attractive when they’re just being themselves, and bumming around the house.
According to Germany, your partner might find it attractive when you relax in front of them, especially if you’re “normally very polished and in control, [they] might find it cute to see [you] a little disheveled.”
The takeaway here is that sexy moments can be found in the most unlikely of places: in the bathroom, whilst brushing your teeth, at a crowded party, etc. What’s attractive is the confidence you’re exuding, and your ability to be yourself. In little moments like these, your partner may find themselves feeling closer to you than ever — and even surprisingly turned on.
It’s Summer, and you know what that means – It’s gonna get HOT. I mean, sweat dripping, uncomfortable, please-don’t-touch-me hot.
At the home office, we are looking at temps of over 100 tomorrow, and I am already dreading the thought of it.
Here are some ideas to help you keep your cool – both in and out of the bedroom – when the thermometer starts creeping up.
Fresh Balls & Fresh Breasts
Both Fresh Balls and Fresh Breasts are easy-to-apply lotions that dry quickly to a protective powder, so there is no clumping on your skin nor any powdery residue. A true lifesaver!
Fresh Body products are made with natural ingredients and are formulated to keep these areas fresh and dry, preventing the uncomfortable feelings caused by perspiration where skin touches skin (so balls, under the breasts, on your booty or on the thighs.)
This minty fresh bathing gel gently washes your skin with a luxurious thick-and-silky lather, softening your skin with vitamin E and other nourishing oils. But the real magic happens as soon as you turn off the water, and the air hits your body. OMG – So cool and refreshing!
No one likes how regular tights put the squeeze on you! And who doesn’t breathe a huge sigh of relief when they’re peeled off after a long day? Plus, who needs that waistband
Kix’ies no-sip grip keeps them in place without the uncomfortable high-waisted band squeezing at your belly all day! There are four sizes to choose from and you size by thigh circumference to get the perfect fit.
As a bonus, they help protect against thigh rub/ chub rub irritation!
This oh-so-cue pleasure combo by Sensuva includes two all-natural products packaged together in an oh-so-cute tin box:
ON Ice Buzzing & Cooling Arousal Oil is an incredibly powerful clitoral arousal oil that’s all-natural and made with an original blend of pure essential oils and extracts. When applied directly to the clitoris, the fast-acting ON ICE will dramatically heighten arousal and provide an exciting sensation that pulsates, vibrates, tingles and cools that most sensitive part of the body.
Strawberry Flavored Nip Zip Cooling Nipple Balm is the most exciting thing to happen to nipples since ice cubes! But it’s a million times better than ice cubes because it’s colder, lasts longer, and keeps your sheets dry. It works with the moisture in your skin AND in the air, for the ultimate in nipply, chilly fun!