I’ll never understand how some women think their man is a “Project.”
Ladies, if you didn’t like who he was from the start of the relationship, you will NOT be able to change him into the person you want.
Yes, he will watch football every Sunday; don’t argue about it, this is what he likes! No, he will not put his socks in the hamper; just live with it! Yes, he will spend time with his pals; great, this is your time to go out with the girls or even spend a little time with yourself!
You need to be able to accept your guy as he is, for WHO he is. If he wants to make changes because you’ve inspired him to do so, that’s a fantastic bonus. But a woman who treats her guy like a fixer-upper then acts disappointed and surprised that he isn’t changing into what she wants drives me bananas .