A Fun Post-Date Night Activity

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Want to keep the fun going once you get home from your fun night out? Shop together online!

Looking at a pleasure product website that is designed to be couple-friendly can help you and your partner learn a lot about each other.

Communication is a key element in any healthy relationship, but when it comes to bedroom activities it’s easy to be too shy to ask for what you want.

Setting aside some time for you and your honey to shop together online is a subtle way to let your partner know what you are interested in, and to learn what your partner wants to try

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and also what he or she has no interest in at all.

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Body Candy Romantic Treats is perfect for this activity, because even though the product selection is spicy, the pleasure product designs are of a more subtle nature so couples can feel comfortable looking at the items together.

Go on, give it a try! You’ll be so glad you did 😉


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The Once Sentence You Need To Hear If You’re Single During The Holidays, Based On Your Zodiac Sign

Aries (March 21st to April 19th) You’re not really alone, look at all the love surrounding you that you’re not even paying attention to. Taurus (April 20th to May 21st) Stop focusing so much on yourself and be thankful you have people around you to share the season with. Gemini (May 22nd to June 21st)…

via The Once Sentence You Need To Hear If You’re Single During The Holidays, Based On Your Zodiac Sign — Thought Catalog

Our Top 10 Toys For Couples for 2016!

We’re talking about the best of the best for 2016, as selected by YOU based on sales & searches.

Next week is our Top Ten Overall list, so be sure to tune in at this same time to see if your favorites made the list!

If you want to learn more about any of our Tops, click on any image to see it on bodycandyromantictreats.com

This week – Your Top Ten Toys for Couples!


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Here are your favorite Toys for Couples, starting with number 10 and working our way to number one.

10 – Door Jam Sex Sling

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9 – All Star Enhancer

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8 – The Screaming O Vibrating Ring

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7 – RingO 3-Pack

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6 – Ultimate Cage

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5 – DoubleO 6

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4 – Remote Control Vibrating Panty

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3 – Tongue Vibe

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2 – Ofinity Plus

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And your very favorite, number one Toy for Couples is…..

1 – We-Vibe 4 Plus!

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Stay tuned next week for our final Tops, the Overall Top 10 list for 2016!


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Product Review: The Womanizer

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In case you missed it, here is our review of the Womanizer Deluxe, which was originally called W500 Pro, and is possibly one of the greatest gifts to womankind 🙂


Item: Womanizer W500 Pro Stats: 8  levels of intensity are precisely adjustable, USB Rechargeable lithium ion battery, Splashproof, Easy-clean light-up silicone stimulation head, Power button with …

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How To Make Lube Application Feel Sexy Instead Of Awkward

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We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions?

Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist, to help us out with the details. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off limits, and all questions will remain anonymous. Please send your sex and relationship inquiries to tips@bustle.com. Now on to this week’s question: how to make using lube feel sexy.

Q: “I’ve read about the benefits of using lube during sex. I am definitely on the drier side, so I know I should give it a shot. I bought some, but in the moment, I just can’t bring myself to actually use it during sex. I feel awkward interrupting the moment to pull out the bottle. I feel weird and on display slathering it on myself. Is there a way to put on lube that’s sexy and doesn’t pause everything?”

A: Thanks for the question! I think lube is one of the simplest, yet most effective, tools for improving your sex life. It decreases pain and discomfort, makes sex feel better, and can be an awful lot of fun to play around with. That being said, I know a lot of people still feel uncomfortable using lube, for some of the exact reasons you described. But we shouldn’t let goopy bottles or a fear of busting it out ruin the entire experience! Here are eight ways to make lube feel sexier.

 

  1. Treat Yourself

Most people buy their lube at the drugstore, but it’s hard to get very excited by an ugly bottle that cost you three bucks. If you can afford it, I highly recommend splurging on a high-quality bottle of lube like Pjur or Wicked. It will feel more luxurious and special, which will help you feel less embarrassed whipping it out. If you’re in a relationship, you can even research your purchase together so it feels like a treat for both of you.

  1. Put It In A Cute Lotion Dispenser

Even the best lube manufacturers have yet to address what I think is the most frustrating aspect of using lube: dealing with the bottle in the moment! Pjur brand is my holy grail of lubes, but I hate the screw-top design. The cap inevitably slides out of your hands, it’s difficult to figure out exactly how much you’re dispensing, and it’s tricky not to get lube all over the bottle.

But here’s a simple solution — transfer your lube into a pretty pump dispenser! The pump makes it easy to get lube quickly and discretely. It ensures that at least one hand stays lube-free, so you won’t have to worry about trying to put a cap back on while your fingers are slippery. You can find a beautiful bottle that suits your tastes and won’t look out of place on your bedside table, meaning it will always be within reach instead of buried at the bottom of your drawer.

  1. Experiment With It On Your Own

If you’re brand-new to using lube, it may take a bit of time to get comfortable using it. Let me be clear — there’s absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about when it comes to using lube. But if you’re feeling awkward about using it, the best way to get more comfortable is to use it on your own first. Try masturbating with lube. Play with it with your fingers. Notice the way it changes the sensation of your own touch. See if you can make masturbation more of a sensual, seductive experience.

  1. Use It During A Massage

Similarly, it may take some time to get used to using lube with a partner. One really easy way to introduce lube to your relationship is to use it during a massage. A lot of people don’t know that lube can work well as a regular massage oil. Tell your partner that you have a surprise for them, then get a little bit of lube in your hands and rub their shoulders. As you both get turned on, you can say something like, “we can play with this in other areas too.”

  1. Put It On Privately

If you’re feeling shy about using lube with your partner, you can always keep a bottle in your bathroom and put it on privately. Or keep a few single-use packets in your purse if you’re going to a partner’s house. Again, there’s nothing to be embarrassed about, but it’s fine to give yourself some time to build up your courage. (Keep in mind that you don’t want to let your partner perform oral sex if you’re using a lube that’s not specifically designed to be tasted, but this trick should work just fine before manual stimulation or penetration.)

  1. Ask Your Partner To Put It On You

Once you’re feeling more comfortable with the lube, hand your bottle to your partner and tell them, “I want you to put some of this on me.” Have them spend some time rubbing and massaging your thighs, labia, and clitoris. This way, lube becomes a part of the action instead of just some weird step you do before you’re ready to go.

  1. Put It On Your Partner

If you usually engage in penetrative sex, you can try applying the lube to your partner’s dildo or penis. Apply a generous amount, since you want the lube to transfer to your vaginal canal during penetration. Play with your partner’s equipment for a while. If you want to up the sensation play factor, blindfold your partner or ask them to close their eyes, then surprise them with an extra-slippery hand job. This is another way to make lube a part of the fun!

  1. Put On A Show

Once you’re feeling more bold, one of the best ways to make lube sexy in the moment is to put on a show for your partner. Grab some lube, spread your legs, and let your partner watch you rub it all over yourself. If you’re feeling really seductive, say something like, “do you like watching that?” I guarantee you that this move will make you and your partner practically explode with desire!

Vanessa Marin’s article was originally posted on Bustle


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10 Tiny Signs You’re In A ‘Good’ Relationship — Thought Catalog

JD Mason“My parents had a very good relationship,” I often hear my clients say. “What do you mean by good?” I ask. “They didn’t fight. They spent a lot of time with each other.” That may have been the definition of a good relationship years ago, but now most people want more. Following are ten…

via 10 Tiny Signs You’re In A ‘Good’ Relationship — Thought Catalog

9 Clever Ways To Introduce Sex Toys Without Damaging Your Man’s Ego

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Originally posted on Tickle Kitty

Men love their action figures, their video games and their power tools, but they can be totally iffy about toys of the sexual variety.

As silly as it may sound, sex toys are sometimes threatening to men. Men want to feel capable and needed by their women, so if toys are spontaneously brought into the bedroom, and/or used on the regular, it could give off the wrong impressions. Best thing to do is get him in on the fun.

So if you want your man to put away his video games and power tools (don’t worry he can finish your honey-do list and save the Mushroom Kingdom later) and spend more time playing with sex toys, we recommend considering these 9 tips:

  1. Be size wise.

Look, bringing a dildo or vibrator into the bedroom can already be awkward enough as it is. Men usually have a complex about having other dicks in the vicinity of their naked girlfriend, even if they aren’t real – especially if it’s more endowed than him! So your best bet is to choose a toy that’s smaller than him, and gradually move up in size over time.

A great just-getting-started small vibe like the Callie is perfect as it’s only 3 inches total. Or consider something totally non-phallic and non-intimidating like My Secret Vibrating Lipstick. You can invite him to paint your lips!

  1. Try going gender neutral.

Choose a ‘unisex’ style toy – that can be used for the both of your pleasures. The Bodywand is a great example of this. It’s so powerful and can be used all over both of your bodies: from butt massage, to nipple play – and everything in between. Or perhaps try the Sqweel GO!, which is also used topically on your erogenous zones, and is meant to imitate the act of being licked. Who wouldn’t want a tongue bath?

  1. Go for a couples toy.

There are many toys specially designed to give you both please, simultaneously. This angle of introduction will help even the playing field. The APEX Vibrating Penis Ring is a great option – it provides longer, harder erections for him, while offering those OMG! vibrations on your clitoris. You may even be able to orgasm at the same time!

Or, you can’t go wrong with the bestselling couples We-Vibe 4 Plus for APP-controlled flirty fun. Not only will he be able to control your orgasm from anywhere in the world, but it will also kind of feel like he is playing a sexy video game, because he gets to use the remote control. This will ensure that he’ll be having almost as much fun as you are.

  1. Try a subtle surprise.

In your cunning, cat-like way, surprise him softly with a small, harmless Classic Silver Bullet while giving him oral love. When you’ve got him by the balls, a guy will say yes to almost anything (please don’t use this for evil purposes).

Simply hide it under the pillow beforehand and slip it out with your free hand at the right moment and let him feel the vibrational pleasures at the base of his penis or on his balls while you continue your loving. You not hear a thing out of his mouth but stronger, louder, panting!

  1. Give him a show!

With a new vibe as your sidekick, use it on yourself, and let him sit back, watch and enjoy. Everyone knows almost every man loves to watch a woman masturbate. So play it up for him and see what he does next… Consider the Hello Touch for this amazing show, which is a non-intimidating toy that turns your fingertips into mini-vibrators. The best part is you can slip them onto him next and let his fingers do the walking!

  1. Make it all about his pleasure, first.

Prepare a little treasure trove of men’s playthings for him including a RingO PRO Silicone Penis Ring, Mood Powerball, and Apollo Automatic Head Pump – and you’ll be set. Let him lay back and enjoy the all the pleasures coming his way. If he’s a good sport, he’ll happily return the favors.

  1. Show him porn you like.

We’re fairly certain your man would be amped at the idea of watching porn with his lady. I mean, it’s pretty much every man’s dream (yes, most of our dreams are sexually charged).

This in turn leaves an excellent opportunity to introduce the world of sex toys to him, in a comfortable and familiar setting — a setting where he may even feel right at home in. Let’s be real, he’s probably been watching the stuff since he was 13.

So find a video that you enjoy, where they use toys like the kind you want to try such as the Booty Vibro Kit or the G-Gasm Dual Stimulator. As you both enjoy the show, tell him you want to experiment with said toy(s). Maybe put on the cute and sexy voice you sometimes use to make him weak. You know, the one you use to get him to put on deodorant or take out the garbage. Then ask him if he’d play toys with you. He may then be interested, so it’s be a good idea to have one handy!

  1. Make a sexy trade.

If the above methods don’t work, or you don’t want to encourage his porn addiction, you can always make a pleasure trade for something he wants (just to warn you: if we know anything about men — it will probably be anal – however never do anything unless YOU are comfortable with it). Whatever the pleasure trade may be, wouldn’t that trade be oh, so worth it if it meant you could bring something like the Womanizer Deluxe into the bedroom?

He’ll be so stoked about getting his wish, he won’t even think twice about any uncertainty he may have about using toys.

  1. Reassure him with good communication.

Feel free to express how much you would like to explore toys, already enjoy them, or would like to them enjoy them with him – and how super hot they get you. But also tell him how much you enjoy sex without the toys. Explain to him that you like to experiment and would enjoy exploring both forms of sex (with and without toys). It’s never a matter of him being “replaced” (which is impossible to do!), but rather being open to enhancing your sexual experiences together with the world of sex toys right at your fingertips.

He’s still on the fence? Then start easy with We’ve Never… But We Will! couple’s foreplay game – you can’t go wrong there!

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