9 Clever Ways To Introduce Sex Toys Without Damaging Your Man’s Ego

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Originally posted on Tickle Kitty

Men love their action figures, their video games and their power tools, but they can be totally iffy about toys of the sexual variety.

As silly as it may sound, sex toys are sometimes threatening to men. Men want to feel capable and needed by their women, so if toys are spontaneously brought into the bedroom, and/or used on the regular, it could give off the wrong impressions. Best thing to do is get him in on the fun.

So if you want your man to put away his video games and power tools (don’t worry he can finish your honey-do list and save the Mushroom Kingdom later) and spend more time playing with sex toys, we recommend considering these 9 tips:

  1. Be size wise.

Look, bringing a dildo or vibrator into the bedroom can already be awkward enough as it is. Men usually have a complex about having other dicks in the vicinity of their naked girlfriend, even if they aren’t real – especially if it’s more endowed than him! So your best bet is to choose a toy that’s smaller than him, and gradually move up in size over time.

A great just-getting-started small vibe like the Callie is perfect as it’s only 3 inches total. Or consider something totally non-phallic and non-intimidating like My Secret Vibrating Lipstick. You can invite him to paint your lips!

  1. Try going gender neutral.

Choose a ‘unisex’ style toy – that can be used for the both of your pleasures. The Bodywand is a great example of this. It’s so powerful and can be used all over both of your bodies: from butt massage, to nipple play – and everything in between. Or perhaps try the Sqweel GO!, which is also used topically on your erogenous zones, and is meant to imitate the act of being licked. Who wouldn’t want a tongue bath?

  1. Go for a couples toy.

There are many toys specially designed to give you both please, simultaneously. This angle of introduction will help even the playing field. The APEX Vibrating Penis Ring is a great option – it provides longer, harder erections for him, while offering those OMG! vibrations on your clitoris. You may even be able to orgasm at the same time!

Or, you can’t go wrong with the bestselling couples We-Vibe 4 Plus for APP-controlled flirty fun. Not only will he be able to control your orgasm from anywhere in the world, but it will also kind of feel like he is playing a sexy video game, because he gets to use the remote control. This will ensure that he’ll be having almost as much fun as you are.

  1. Try a subtle surprise.

In your cunning, cat-like way, surprise him softly with a small, harmless Classic Silver Bullet while giving him oral love. When you’ve got him by the balls, a guy will say yes to almost anything (please don’t use this for evil purposes).

Simply hide it under the pillow beforehand and slip it out with your free hand at the right moment and let him feel the vibrational pleasures at the base of his penis or on his balls while you continue your loving. You not hear a thing out of his mouth but stronger, louder, panting!

  1. Give him a show!

With a new vibe as your sidekick, use it on yourself, and let him sit back, watch and enjoy. Everyone knows almost every man loves to watch a woman masturbate. So play it up for him and see what he does next… Consider the Hello Touch for this amazing show, which is a non-intimidating toy that turns your fingertips into mini-vibrators. The best part is you can slip them onto him next and let his fingers do the walking!

  1. Make it all about his pleasure, first.

Prepare a little treasure trove of men’s playthings for him including a RingO PRO Silicone Penis Ring, Mood Powerball, and Apollo Automatic Head Pump – and you’ll be set. Let him lay back and enjoy the all the pleasures coming his way. If he’s a good sport, he’ll happily return the favors.

  1. Show him porn you like.

We’re fairly certain your man would be amped at the idea of watching porn with his lady. I mean, it’s pretty much every man’s dream (yes, most of our dreams are sexually charged).

This in turn leaves an excellent opportunity to introduce the world of sex toys to him, in a comfortable and familiar setting — a setting where he may even feel right at home in. Let’s be real, he’s probably been watching the stuff since he was 13.

So find a video that you enjoy, where they use toys like the kind you want to try such as the Booty Vibro Kit or the G-Gasm Dual Stimulator. As you both enjoy the show, tell him you want to experiment with said toy(s). Maybe put on the cute and sexy voice you sometimes use to make him weak. You know, the one you use to get him to put on deodorant or take out the garbage. Then ask him if he’d play toys with you. He may then be interested, so it’s be a good idea to have one handy!

  1. Make a sexy trade.

If the above methods don’t work, or you don’t want to encourage his porn addiction, you can always make a pleasure trade for something he wants (just to warn you: if we know anything about men — it will probably be anal – however never do anything unless YOU are comfortable with it). Whatever the pleasure trade may be, wouldn’t that trade be oh, so worth it if it meant you could bring something like the Womanizer Deluxe into the bedroom?

He’ll be so stoked about getting his wish, he won’t even think twice about any uncertainty he may have about using toys.

  1. Reassure him with good communication.

Feel free to express how much you would like to explore toys, already enjoy them, or would like to them enjoy them with him – and how super hot they get you. But also tell him how much you enjoy sex without the toys. Explain to him that you like to experiment and would enjoy exploring both forms of sex (with and without toys). It’s never a matter of him being “replaced” (which is impossible to do!), but rather being open to enhancing your sexual experiences together with the world of sex toys right at your fingertips.

He’s still on the fence? Then start easy with We’ve Never… But We Will! couple’s foreplay game – you can’t go wrong there!

Ready to play?

Did you find yourself fantasizing or flexing your pelvic orgasm muscle as you learned about the amazing toys mentioned above? No time like the present!

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A Fun Post-Date Night Activity

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Want to keep the fun going once you get home from your fun night out? Shop together online!

Looking at a pleasure product website that is designed to be couple-friendly can help you and your partner learn a lot about each other.

Communication is a key element in any healthy relationship, but when it comes to bedroom activities it’s easy to be too shy to ask for what you want.

Setting aside some time for you and your honey to shop together online is a subtle way to let your partner know what you are interested in, and to learn what your partner wants to try

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and also what he or she has no interest in at all.

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Body Candy Romantic Treats is perfect for this activity, because even though the product selection is spicy, the pleasure product designs are of a more subtle nature.

Go on, give it a try! You’ll be so glad you did 😉


Ready to play?

Feeling frisky? No time like the present!

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Product Review: The Womanizer

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Item: Womanizer W500 Pro

Stats: 8  levels of intensity are precisely adjustable, USB Rechargeable lithium ion battery, Splashproof, Easy-clean light-up silicone stimulation head, Power button with Swarovski crystal detail

About The Item

In case you aren’t familiar, Womanizer has been the most talked-about pleasure product since the We-Vibe couples vibrator was featured on Dr. Oz years ago and still enjoys great popularity to this day. The reason, I’m guessing, is that it is such a completely and unique piece. The stimulation is uniquely intimate without being invasive. It’s truly unlike anything else on the market, and surprisingly almost all users report back that they get their “O” in under a minute.

It uses a VERY light suction to draw the glans (the external part of the clotiris; the part most people refer to as the clitoris, the clit, the man in the boat, the pearl, etc.) inside the unit. Inside the Womanizer is where the “Pleasure Air” technology applies pulsating pressure waves, which is the source of all the hubub and delight and fast results.

Of course, I was curious. I mean, how can just about EVERYONE like something?

Then I tried my Womanizer. Oh. My. GOD.

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In the Box

Womanizer Pro 500, Satin storage pouch, Regular silicone stimulation head, Large silicone stimulation head, USB Cord & plug

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Basic Details

I found the device easy to hold. The W500 version is almost shaped like a computer mouse, and the power button and controls are located on the unit in the same spot as a mouse scroll wheel is, so for me it was simple to adjust the controls.

My Experience

After I removed my new treat from the box and charged it using the included USB cable, I tested it on my hand, like I would a vibrator. Because everything happens once you are inside the unit, the try-on-the-hand method of testing doesn’t give any hint of what you are about to experience. I tried it on my nose, actually stuck the tip of it inside the Womanizer, and felt a little something, but it still wasn’t close to actually using it on the intended body part.

It didn’t take much fumbling to get the Womanizer in the right spot. WOW!! I didn’t recognize the noises that came out of me. The experience was completely unique, and dear lord it was FAST! I feel like it was under a minute, but can’t be sure because while I was using my Womanizer I had no concept of time.

It somehow stimulates the ENTIRE clitoris, the “subterranean” parts (read about this little-known part of the body in the Museum of Sex’s description here) that usually require lots of internal stimulation and manipulating, so you feel it in your entire pelvis, and it really takes you to a next-level orgasm.

I don’t know what happens inside a Womanizer to cause such a reaction from my body, but it’s either Magic, or maybe there is a small wizard who lives inside the unit who cast a spell on me, or I-Don’t-Know-What! Frankly, I don’t care about the how lol. All I know is I get giddy thinking about it and have to squeeze my thighs together.

The after-effects were interesting to me. I felt so lustful for hours afterwards! I haven’t heard that reaction in any other review, but wanted to share the pleasurable aftermath 🙂

When I win the lottery, I will buy one of these units for every woman I know, because it is something EVERYONE with a clitoris should experience.

Get yours at www.bodycandyromantictreats.com

Tasty Body Treats For Valentine’s Day (Or any time!)

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Adding a little flavor to your foreplay really makes things fun, and adds a special touch to those times when you are being close with your partner.

Valentine’s Day is a great time to try out some of my favorites, as seen in the Yummy section of our Valentine’s Gift Boutique.


 

Be My Monet Kissable Body Paint

Be My Monet Kissable Body Paint by DONA

Create an erotic masterpiece with DONA Kissable Body Paint. Let the tempting blend of aphrodisiacs & pheromones and three decadent flavors inspire your passion.

$10.00

Kissable Massage Cream

Kissable Massage Cream

This luxurious cream will leave the skin feeling soft and tasting delicious!

Caress your partner with this delectable massage cream. Get close to your lover with this tasty treat and feel the softness of their skin against yours. Let the sexual tension rise and bring erotism to a peak!

$17.00

Oralicious

Oralicious

This tasty oral pleasure cream brings a whole new level of excitement when it comes to intimate play!

This amazing cream not only tickles the throat, but also has a smooth, cooling rich taste and aroma, which provides both partners a euphoric experience that will leave you both hungry for more! Massage it in, lick it off and feel your Erogenous Zones come alive!

$12.00

AQUA Flavors

AQUA Flavors by Wicked

Kissable, Lickable and Delicious, AQUA Flavors add subtle taste to enhance oral pleasures. Light & silky, this water based formula is the perfect sensual combination of an elegant lubricant and a flavor sensation.


Happy Shopping!

Valentine’s Gifts for HER, Part II

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We talked about some gift ideas for her in a previous post, but there are so many awesome ideas I wanted to show you a little more in the For Her category 🙂

Here are my favorite vibes and rabbits, as seen in our Valentine’s Gift Boutique:

Lovelife & Cuddle

Lovelife & Cuddle

Cuddling is the perfect antidote to a long day. Cuddling up with this G-spot vibrator will leave you hoping that long day becomes an even longer night.

Cuddle is perfectly shaped for targeted G-Spot stimulation. The rechargeable motor features 6 levels of speed and 7 functions, for a completely customizable experience.

$69.00

Shake It Up!

Shake It Up!

This power-packed vibe has an intense gyrating action, and is easy to use. It’s sized just right for internal and external stimulation.

$20.00

The Classic Rabbit – Special Bling Edition

The Classic Rabbit - Special Bling Edition

The Classic Rabbit from The Rabbit Company features two powerful motors that stimulate inside and out, for sensual satisfaction that can’t be matched.

The external rabbit stimulator features teasing ears with additional ticklers on the nose, and the full shaft is ergonomically curved for G-spot stimulation. Waterproof for fun in & out of the water and easy cleanup.

The beautiful addition of crystals applied to the handle are not only pretty, but act as a non-slip grip. Makes a wonderful gift!

$210.00

Ravishing Rabbit Lover

Ravishing Rabbit Lover

The Ravishing Rabbit Lover delivers erotic satisfaction in every way, from function and design to quality materials to ease of operation. This gorgeous rabbit features powerful dual motors that put the FUN in its 10 functions. It has been specifically designed for maximum tactile pleasure.

$58.00


 

Happy Shopping!

Valentine’s Gifts For Couples!

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Valentine’s Day is the PERFECT time to treat you and your honey to something special.

Did you know that just shopping together online can almost be a form of foreplay? It’s also a great way to communicate to your lover the types of items you are interested in, as well as what you are NOT into at all 😉 What a great way to discover more about your partner!

Here are my favorite toys for couples, as seen in the Body Candy Valentine’s Gift Guide:

We-Vibe Couple’s Vibrators

Use We-Vibe massagers together — during sex or when you’re apart.
She gets extra stimulation to her clitoris and G-spot and together you both share the vibe.

Available in 2 shapes:

The body-hugging  We-Vibe 4 Plus:

We-Vibe 4 Plus

And the Classic versatile C-shape:

We-Vibe Classic

Sensuelle Remote Control 20-Function Partner Ring

Sensuelle Remote Control 20-Function Partner Ring

The silky silicone rechargeable ring features 20 climatic functions of vibration, pulsation, and escalation that are easy to control with the wireless remote. Firm enough to support yet flexible for ease of fitting, this full-coverage stimulator will get couples tingling together. Waterproof for fun in & out of the water and easy cleanup.

$60.00

Ohare

Ohare

The Ohare turns HIM into your favorite rabbit vibe with a comfort-fit erection ring and super-powered 4-function motor enhanced with soft, flexible rabbit ears! Excite and delight with targeted clitoral stimulation from an iconic shape she loves, and keep him harder longer with a comfort-fit ring that secures the vibrating rabbit in place!

$25.00

My Secret Remote Control Panty Vibe

Remote Control Panty

 

Put the power of pleasure into your partner’s hands with the My Secret Panty Vibe Set, a super-powered vibrating bullet that fits discreetly into a side-tie lace panty to keep it perfectly in place.

Operated by a remote control disguised as a finger ring, the My Secret Vibrating Panty Set works from up to 50 feet away makes it fun and easy for couples to play in public.

Available in your choice of 3 fashion colors.


Happy Shopping!

Valentine’s Gift Ideas – For Her, Part 1

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Valentine’s Day is coming up fast, and our Gift Guide is available to help you find the perfect little somethin’ somethin’ to give your honey.

The Guide is broken down into 5 sections:

Sweet – Romance Enhancers, games, lotions and potions, massage products, etc.

Spicy – Toys for Her, for Him, and for Them, all presented in packaging that’s suitable for gifting.

Yummy – Tasty body toppings and treats.

Adventurous – For those looking to try something a little different, why not try a little light bondage?

Sensual Sets – Pre-packaged sets that include a little of everything.

Because there are quite a few items to choose from, I’ll break the Guide down even more for ya, talk about something for every budget, and spread the info out over a few posts. 🙂


 

First up are my top picks for Bullets and Mini Vibes, as featured in our Spicy gift section:

BodyWand Minis – Fashion Edition

Fashion Minis

Designed with subdued sound levels and engineered for strong, continuous stimulation, the powerful vibrations are managed by a simple one-finger control. Splashproof for easy care and cleanup.

Available in Luscious Lips, White & Pink Sweetheart, Red & White Heartbreaker, or White & Red Ladybug – All with an extra touch of bling at the base.

$22.00

Luxe Collection Princess

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Designed for performance as well as aesthetics, the compact Luxe Princess redefines luxury. Princess is coated in silky smooth silicone in pink with onyx or ivory with rose gold accents, and features an embossed diamond pattern for extra texture.

Featuring 7 robust functions, this stunningly powerful vibe is waterproof, body-safe and virtually silent. A universal USB charger is included for convenience.

$55.00

Crystal High Intensity Bullet

 

This smooth, seamless, durable and discreet bullet is adorned with fine white crystals, and is designed for the modern sensual woman who appreciates intense power.

Using the incremental speed control, you can reach your  desired level of vibration by just holding down the light-up button control. Incredibly intense power, whisper quiet, and waterproof for fun in & out of the water and easy cleanup.

$18.00

Curve by Nalone

Sculpted to work with the contours of your body and sit snugly in the palm of your hand, this silicone, waterproof, rechargeable vibrator gives you complete control over stimulation. Boasting touch responsive technology and 7 vibration modes for powerful orgasm after orgasm.

Choose your favorite speed and use the touch responsive panel to create customized patterns. Simply press and hold the ‘T’ button during any mode to switch from the standard controls to the touch setting.

$106.00


 

Stay tuned for more gift ideas 🙂

The 2015 Gift Guide is HERE!

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‘Twas two weeks before Christmas and all through the town,

People were frantic, some felt a bit down.

Oh dear what to do? The shopping’s not done.

They have more gifts to buy – some need more than one!

No need to panic, no need to fear

Your worries are over – Body Candy is here.

We’ve got luxury bath & body items, candles, and romantic gift sets, too!

We can even give advice, if you aren’t sure what to do.

No parking, no crowds, no need for the Mall

Just have a peek at the site, we’ve thought of it all

A Body Candy Christmas will please everyone

And you can relax, knowing you’re done 😉

Welcome to the 2015 Holiday Gift Guide!

We’ve hand-picked some delightful items with YOU in mind!

I’ll just talk about the highlights today, but you can see the full collection at BodyCandyRomanticTreats.com in the Holiday Gift Boutique, where you can shop Naughty or Nice (or maybe a little of both!)

 

LUXURY BATH & BODY

 

Our Room Pheromone Perfume & Cologne

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Unlock  carnal desires with these aphrodisiac & pheromone infused fragrances.  The pheromones can increase the sensation of trust, build arousal, and in general heighten pleasure. Available for Her and for Him. $39.00

 

 

Oriental Crystals Scented Dead Sea Salts

Oriental Crystals Scented Dead Sea Salts

 

Vividly colored water salted with crystals from the Dead Sea not only smell amazing and color your bathwater a beautiful green or blue, but they nourish the skin. Includes a shell scoop and floating candle. $23.00

 

 

The Kissmas Sparkle Collection

Kissmas Sparkle

 

This pheromone-infused body care collection – from the makers of Coochy! – includes body fragrance, body lotion, and shave cream, all with a touch of holiday sparkle. The Sugar Plum Fairy Fragrance used is a blend of Cranberry, Red Raspberry, Melted Butter, Sweet Kettle Corn, African Violet, Sugared Iris, Blondewoods, and Sheer Musk. $11.00 – $15.00

 

CHRISTMAS-THEMED GIFTS

 

Horny Holiday Stocking

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The Screaming O Horny Holiday Stocking is stuffed full of intimate essentials for him and her. Show your not-to-secret Santa how naughty and nice you’ve been! Includes all the items shown. $29.95

 

 

Santa’s Coming! Bag

Santa's Coming bag

 

Journey to a winter wonderland with this holiday-inspired collection of sexy holiday treats in a lockable vinyl stocking bag trimmed in faux fur. Includes all the items shown. $40.00

 

 

 

Icicles Candy Cane

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This hand blown glass candy cane comes in a beautiful gift box and makes the perfect stocking stuffer for that special someone on your list! The smooth glass is body-safe, nonporous and hypoallergenic. Run it under warm water for a few minutes and heat up those cold holiday nights! $32.00

 

 

GIFTS FOR HER

 

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Engineered for strong and continuous stimulation and designed with subdued sound levels, this all-over USB rechargeable body massager features fantastic power and a handle covered in Austrian crystals. Perfect for everyone on your list! $100.00.

 

 

 

 

Special Bling Edition Rabbits

Bling Rabbits

 

The USB rechargeable, silicone, waterproof Classic and G-Spot Rabbits from The Rabbit Company feature two powerful motors that stimulate inside and out for sensual satisfaction that can’t be matched. As if that weren’t enough, they added that special blingy touch. Two of a girl’s best friends – A rabbit vibe and extra sparkly bling – together at last! $210.00

 

Special Edition Kisses

Butterfly Kiss

 

 

The best selling Kiss has just gone silicone, and features a touch of golden sparkle to play off that luxurious ivory finish.

$27.00

 

 

GIFTS FOR HIM

 

Rollerball by OptiMALE

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The OptiMALE Reversible Rollerball offers stimulating massage beads for an amazing lifelike feel. Silky smooth on one side, and intense raised pleasure beads on the other. Includes a free travel and storage case! $26.00

 

Helix Syn

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Give the gift of prostate health and the ultimate in male pleasure! The Synergy possible with Helix Syn and the Male G-spot is an unmatched combination you have to experience for yourself. This is the best-selling prostate massage overall from Aneros! $70.00

 

 

X-Mas Tuggie

X-Mas Tuggie

 

Don’t be fooled by cheap imitations – only the Tuggie keeps you cozy and warm anywhere you go! Isn’t the candy cane design festive? $11.00

 

 

 

 

GIFTS FOR THEM

 

We-Vibe Passionate Play Collection

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The No. 1 couples pleasure product, the most powerful mini-vibe AND a playful silky sash – all at a great price!

You get a Limited Edition Tiffany Blue We-Vibe 4 Plus couple’s rechargeable vibrator, a Limited Edition Pearl We-Vibe Tango rechargeable bullet vibe, and a silky sash – all beautifully presented in a keepsake box. $189.05.

 

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Afterdark

 

This special gift wrapped set includes the CONTOUR M Ceramic Massage Stone, AFTERGLOW Special Edition COCOA + FIG soy massage candle, and the top-selling FORM 2 Special Edition rechargeable clitoral massager in Seductive Red.

 

 

Our Room Tempt Me Kit

Tempt Me Kit

 

This pleasure-magnifying kit for two includes a feather tickler, a sensual blindfold, JO Pink Champagne Flavored H2O Lube, JO Kissable Body Powder, JO Devilish Chocolate Kissable Massage Oil, an Erotic Book of JO, and a Lover’s Contract. $69.00

 

 

For even MORE ideas, be sure to check out the Gift Sets category.

 

Happy Shopping!

Introducing the Limited Edition Our Room Collection

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The Limited Edition Our Room Collection is built around a selection of core, limited-run versions of System JO products which increase touch, taste, and sensation. The signature Pink Champagne flavored lubricant offers a refined taste to your next intimate moment.  System JO has further improved the entire experience by selecting the perfect accessories to create a deeper experience.

The essence of Our Room is to educate and enhance each person’s understanding of what pleasure is, and how to increase the presence and depth of each experience.  Our Room is a place to break free of the normal, expected routine in order to embrace the surprise of something new, while remaining open to creativity in every form.  To put it crudely, without pain one cannot truly know or appreciate the depth of pleasure.  This is not to say that through pain comes pleasure, this is to say that variety is the spice of life, and many people enjoy the lingering bite of a little heat.

Our Room is designed for you to explore the idea of sensation play, body-worship, and basic role play/fantasy play.  Step out of your role as mother/father or wife/husband and find your role as an object of pure desire.  Learn the joys of submitting to your lover’s demands, and feel the power of your voice as you command your lover to fulfill your deepest longings. This alone is a powerful exercise that can help you to be more assertive in life as well as in love. You may find yourself being more aware of your partner’s feelings or acknowledging a deeper sensation of trust between you both.  Remember, there is no such thing as too much fun!

The most important foundation within any relationship is open, honest communication; without it we would be left making educated guesses as to how someone feels and what they truly desire.  The lover’s contract that is built into the Tempt Me, Bind Me, and Serve Me kits offer a great way to share a deeper side of yourself without fear of judgment, and within an agreed upon structure.

Bring your relationship to new heights with the Our Room collection by JO and check back later for more tips, tricks, and helpful additions to take your bed-room repertoire to a whole new level!

See and shop for the full collection HERE

Vibrators Treat Common Menopause Symptoms? It’s true!

11133994_10203643985772811_8760787330418850984_nOriginally published on Huffington Post a few years ago, but I love all the great info and though it was worth a share!

Hot flashes, night sweats, shifts in moods… women suffering from menopause are well aware of the symptoms. But one of the more embarrassing symptoms is vaginal dryness.

“Just like when women first get their periods, menopause is a big life change,” said Dr. Mary Jane Minkin, a clinical professor of obstetrics and gynecology at Yale University School of Medicine. “The lack of estrogen in the body decreases blood flow to the pelvic region. As a result, this can cause vaginal dryness and vaginal atrophy, or a weakening of the muscle tone in the pelvic area that can lead to sexual dysfunction and painful sex.”

Vaginal dryness is a common complaint for women during and after menopause. To treat the irritating and embarrassing problem, doctors usually prescribe topical estrogen creams and gels that can be applied to the vagina for lubrication. But Dr. Minkin has a different, non-hormonal and slightly unconventional solution: vibrators.

Here, Dr. Minkin explains the benefits of using a vibrator to treat vaginal dryness.

How can a vibrator help with this common menopause symptom?

Vibrators improve reproductive and pelvic health help by stimulating pelvic blood flow, which increases vaginal moisture and boosts sexual response, all of which making sex (with or with a partner) more enjoyable. Like any muscle, the vagina is best kept healthy with regular exercise — it’s the “use it, or lose it” mentality. Deterioration is particularly common as more middle-age or older women find themselves in situations where they aren’t sexually active (single, divorced, widowed or aren’t having regular sex with partners).

Therapeutically, frequent vibrator use can prevent and ward off conditions such as painful vaginal dryness and atrophy. Within a month, women should notice a difference (even past menopause).

Can you walk us through how you diagnose your patients?

I always talk to my patients about her sex life — with or without a partner — during exams. Let’s say I have a post-menopausal patient who is experiencing a lot of vaginal dryness and is not sexually active. I’ll recommend she try the We-Vibe (pictured above) along with lubricant or with estrogen, if she’s comfortable. During the follow up visit, I’ve noticed patients will frequently tell me they don’t need the estrogen as much because increased activity via [a vibrator] provides more moisture. While vibrators can be used with or without estrogen, we work to find the best combination to keep women healthy and happy.

How have women you’ve treated responded to this treatment?

It’s been a very positive response so far. At least half of women I speak with are comfortable using vibrators. Of course I always work within a patient’s comfort zone, but my main goal as their doctor is to provide a variety of treatment options. The reality is, vibrators are a great, no-side effect solution to an issue that millions of women suffer from. My goal is to educate women that vibrators aren’t something to be embarrassed about — not only are they fun, but they also help women stay comfortable and happy during this sometimes uncomfortable stage in life.

How often do you recommend women use a vibrator for treatment?

I recommend my patients use a vibrator three to four times a week, but as Mae West said, “Too much of a good thing can be wonderful!” Also, I suggest patients use lubricants along with the vibrator since the body-safe product is made of medical-grade silicone.

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If this remedy appeals to you, visit www.bodycandyromantictreats.com and visit our “Toys for Her” section 🙂